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Are you...

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  • Spending too much time worrying what others think?

  • Experiencing excessive FOMO?

  • Mindlessly, scrolling, eating, shopping, etc.?

  • Bending over backwards to keep everyone happy and ending up exhausted?

  • Losing patience and then beating yourself up about it?

 

If this sounds like you, I know the way out!

 I am The
Self Security
Coach

Unshakeable Confidence.

Unapologetic Self-Kindness.

What is Self Security?

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You’ve done everything for everyone. No one would ever guess what emotions you are dealing with.
You’ve been strong, capable, and put together even when you’ve felt like you were falling apart inside.

Now, it’s your turn to feel secure, not just in what you do, but in who you are.

 

Self Security is what happens when two powerful forces come together:

 

Grounded Self-Confidence — the kind that doesn’t depend on how you look, what you achieve, or who approves, grounded in who you ARE your true identity.
 

Self-Compassion — the ability to hold yourself with love, even when you're messy, human, and still in progress.

 

Together, they create a foundation no one can take from you.
 

Not your past. Not your fear. Not anyone’s opinion.

 

Why It Matters

 

Without self security, even the most successful women feel:

  • Anxious under pressure, even when they’re thriving

  • Like they’re not “enough,” no matter how much they do

  • Burned out from trying to earn their worth

 

With self security, you:

  • Trust your voice, your boundaries, and your gut

  • Let go of the guilt and pressure to be everything to everyone

  • Lead your life from wholeness, not from hustle

 

Why Coaching Helps

You’re not broken, you’re just stuck in patterns you didn’t choose.
 

That’s where coaching comes in.

Together, we’ll:

  • Get clear on what’s holding you back and what you truly want

  • Build real tools for self-trust, self-talk, and self-leadership

  • Practice new ways of being, until they become second nature

  • Use The ROOT Method to help you create deep connections with yourself and others.

 

You don’t need fixing.
You need space, support, and a coach who sees the strong, wise woman already inside you.

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Let’s Begin

If you're ready to stop doubting yourself and start being yourself, with confidence and compassion. You're in the right place.

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Because the most powerful woman in the room?
She’s the one who feels secure in her own skin.

Let's Chat!

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Sign up for a Free Mini Session

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to discuss  your goals!

Kori Haring

The Self Security Coach

I am a certified, trauma informed, life coach with an advanced certification in relationship coaching. Always, the place to start is our relationship with ourselves. We carry with us patterns and stories from our past that kept us safe. We can love those parts of us and decide what we want to keep and what isn't serving us any longer. It's just tricky for us to see clearly without a coach!

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I have always had a large capacity for empathy, communication, and logic. This is my superpower. My clients are able to feel seen, gain clarity, and learn the tools they need to make progress towards their goals.

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I'd love to be your coach and help you understand how amazing you are and how to create peace and safety for yourself!

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What Clients Say

Amy J, UT

Kori has supported me through my healing journey for the past two years. Her wisdom, compassion, and perspective have been a source of strength and catalyst for change.

Everyone needs a Kori!

Jenny E, WA

When I started coaching with Kori, my life was extremely stressful and I struggled with  overthinking everything. I was looking for a coach that would be able to help me de-stress and move forward and not shame me for my shortcomings. Kori coaches in such a loving and non-judgmental way that I feel completely safe with her and I am able to be completely vulnerable in our sessions. Her intuitive gift of hearing "between the lines" brings valuable insight to our sessions. The progress I have made working with her is leaps and bounds more than I have made in the past and I can't recommend her enough.

Bree L, HI

I am not mincing words when I say Kori is a phenomenal coach and I am grateful I get to work with her in my healing journey. Kori is non-judgmental, validating, empathetic, supportive, and teaches me tools to recover from my betrayal trauma while assuming I know what is best for my life.
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